Couples Goals: How to Set Relationship Goals Together

Couples goals are shared intentions that keep you aligned and growing. This guide shows how to set relationship goals that feel realistic, meaningful, and motivating for both of you.

Why couples goals matter

Setting goals together gives your relationship direction. It helps you prioritize what matters and make time for it.

• Builds a sense of teamwork and shared purpose
• Creates better communication about priorities
• Turns vague hopes into real plans
• Balances fun goals with practical goals
• Keeps both partners involved and accountable

How to set shared goals

Start with a short list and keep it realistic. Goals should be specific enough to measure and flexible enough to enjoy.

• Pick 3 to 5 categories like travel, health, or finances
• Write one clear goal for each category
• Decide what success looks like for both of you
• Assign small next steps and a timeline
• Review and adjust as life changes

Weekly and monthly check-ins

Short check-ins keep goals alive. A quick review is better than a long session you never schedule.

• 10-minute weekly check-in with coffee
• Monthly review of what worked and what did not
• Celebrate progress, even small wins
• Update timelines when life gets busy
• Choose one new action for the next week

Examples of relationship goals

Need ideas to get started? These examples cover both fun and practical areas.

• Plan one weekend getaway each season
• Complete 12 new date ideas this year
• Save for a shared trip or experience
• Do a weekly at-home date night
• Cook together twice per week
• Start a shared fitness or wellness routine

Track your goals in Sparkz

Sparkz helps you organize goals, set target dates, and track progress together in one shared space.

1. Create a goals list in Sparkz
2. Add a goal for each category you choose
3. Set target dates and reminders
4. Vote on your top priorities
5. Check off milestones as you reach them

Ready to set goals together? Download Sparkz and start now.